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For the first time, in a long time, I had a “laugh out loud” fail. I was trying to replicate “Jo’s Fatayar” from my Magnolia Table cookbook. It was an uphill battle from the start. I knew the name itself would draw criticism from my family. It did. Not that they had any knowledge on which to base their rejection, just the simple fact that my family had not heard of it before is enough to get them riled. Of course, after reading the ingredients (ground beef, cheddar cheese, thawed hash browns, biscuit dough, etc.), I knew there was nothing really objectionable. I likened it to a pasty; beef, potato and onion in a baked crust- a personal package of seasoned meat filling. I don’t know if it was because I replaced the suggested “Grands” with my organic “Annie’s” pre-made biscuit dough, or because the method just relied on pinching the triangle-cornered pockets together without any type of egg wash, or such, binding… But, I knew about half-way through the cooking process, when I went to switch the baking sheets on the oven racks for even heat distribution and saw that my ‘pockets’ looked more like little ‘pizzas’ with unevenly disbursed mounds of beef and cheese, that my attempt was a complete fail. It really was laughable compared to the picture from the cookbook. My kids certainly (after hearing the confession of my mess up) wouldn’t try it now. My husband was a good sport, after smothering it in ketchup. (I liked it best with a dash of Frank’s Red Hot Sauce.) The dough, easy to bend into a taco shape while warm, actually reminded me of a Taco Bell chalupa shell. I made a mental note of this for future experimentation, took a picture of the mishap, and reheated various leftovers to salvage dinner. The kids were pleased.

I, however, am pleased with one of my new cookbooks, Real Girl’s Kitchen. I’m a fan of Hailey Duff’s blog, Real Girl’s Kitchen, and have followed it for a while. I really love her not overly complicated, but heart felt approach to cooking and living. I know the book has been out for a while, but it was still new to me and instantly one of my faves. I appreciate how transparent she is about trying to make healthy choices while still being delicious (my goal in food), as opposed to many celebrity books I buy where I’m constantly questioning to myself as to whether or not they actually eat their recipes (although tasty). I also really like that the majority of recipes are for one. I know that might sound weird, but usually when I cook healthy or want to try something fun (like goat cheese stuffed chicken breast, wrapped in prosciutto with shallot sauce), I know I will have to fight my children to take every bite. This way I can make myself, or myself and a couple of friends, a fun lunch without waste. If I think it’s something my family would enjoy, I can easily double… or quadruple… or sextuple… the recipe too. But mostly, I think I LOVE how that the Real Girl’s breakfast recipe for one, Quinoa, Butternut Squash, Kale and Fried Egg, calls for one whole butternut squash and two eggs. I don’t know if that’s a misprint, but that’s my kind breakfast and I think we could be best friends. It also comes with great suggestions and tips (I’ll take everything I can get). Here are a couple gems I eagerly pass along to you: #1 If you are traveling to New York City please note that between 3-5 pm taxi cab drivers are doing a shift change and therefore make it more difficult to hale a cab, so plan carefully. #2 If you leave a wooden spoon across the top of a boiling pot of water, it will not allow the liquid to boil over. So clever!

Recently, my husband encouraged me to go out and take a morning for myself- a rare, but welcomed treat on a weekend where we try to make the most use out of our “family” time. I went to the local café and got a pastry, pain au chocolat, a coffee (from their in-house roaster)… and, ahem, a breakfast sandwich, a toasted english muffin with Gruyère and bacon. Diet fail… but a pampering win. Priceless.

Not very far from the local coffee roaster, is my favorite store in the whole world, Acorn Farms. They don’t know it, yet. They sell kitchen wares, Polish pottery (as seen in there store window display above), cookbooks, oils, etc. They’re fabulous, and I rarely can walk in without bringing something out. They also offer cooking classes (of which I have taken a couple, such as, Julia Child’s Boeuf Bourguignon, Cookie Decorating and Canning Strawberry Jam). One day, I will admit my affection toward them, and make a plea to let me feature them on my blog.

One of my recent purchases from my aforementioned favorite store was this book, Tablescapes. Oh my word, I cannot say enough about this treasure… What a find! Everyone should own it (at least everyone that has an interest in setting a pretty table). I want to show you every picture in the book, except I’m sure that would infringe upon copyrights. Just know this, it’s a goodie. See how inspired I was to set a pretty ‘scape’ around it just to take a picture? Lol!

I’d love to hear about your finds (especially in cookbooks). I’m always looking for inspiration! And of course, feel free to share your fails… the gift that binds us together!

 

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Unplugged (Mostly)

I read a lot of parenting articles. Recently, I read an article that encouraged not letting kids play in dirt, and definitely not to let them get buried in sand. I realize that strange things can happen. I’m not a doctor. The following is unsolicited, unprofessional advice: Let the kids play outside! Common sense says kids need to be in nature (unless severe allergies tell you otherwise). USNews says (regarding electronic devices) “increased screen time is associated with higher rates of childhood obesity, behavior problems, ADHD, poor sleep quality, poor physical activity and poor school performance.” What better way to get kids off of the couch than to take them outside? According to the same article, parents need to lead by example- because our kids are watching. Really, adults need to play outside and unplug too! Your body and mind will thank you.

Lake Superior at Whitefish Point

Over the last couple weeks we were able to escape from the land of wifi. We got lost in a mixed terrain of fresh air and campfire smoke. We dodged mosquitos, got dirty, and caught frogs.

We swung from trees and floated weightlessly in the Tahquamenon River.

Fun fact: The Tahquamenon Falls in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula are nicknamed the “Rootbeer Falls” because of the coppery brown color; which is actually due to the tannin from decaying trees, cedar swamps and other organic matter that leach into the river.

Tahquamenon Falls courtesy of my brother-in-law, Ryan.

We also floated down the Two-Hearted River. Since I’m on a fun fact trivia kick… did you know that Ernest Hemenway was inspired by his time spent in Michigan? One of his books is actually named Big Two-Hearted River.

Where the Two-Hearted River meets Lake Superior

But the best thing about this area isn’t the floating, the idyllic rustic campground, or the picture perfect swaying footbridge. It’s all of the rocks. Seriously. Looking for agates and skipping smooth flat stones (trying to anyway) is just good family fun. I’m sure Hemenway would have agreed.

You know what else is good family fun? Scrabble. Ok, the kids aren’t interested. But my sister and I had an epic battle. It lasted for hours. And I will give her this satisfaction: she got a seven letter word on a triple word score. You can make your own assumption about who won.

Equally as impressive is this skillet; which covered the entire stovetop and cooked 5 pounds of bacon at one time.

Since we’re on the topic of food, my five-year-old decorated this cake. That’s my boy! (It was actually granny’s idea, inspired by Pinterest.) A perfect kitchen project for kids: Slice an angel food cake into three layers. Blend a mixture of marshmallow cream and Cool Whip to spread on the layers, top with berries. Let your child feel like a successful pastry chef.

While we’re on the subject of good ideas… I’d like to take a moment to give credit to a couple of dads who made a movie theater in the woods with a projector, a camouflage tarp, a white bed sheet, and some Gorilla Tape.

We ate drippy ice cream cones, and took long walks. We lost our front tooth, well one of us did. And we found out that if you put your tooth under a pillow, even in a cabin in the middle of the woods… money will appear. We visited places off of the beaten path. I took random pictures of things I liked.

We topped the week off with more family and friends on the shore of Lake Michigan. We soaked up as much time in the sun as we could.

My phone was left with a dead battery for days. True story.

Aaah, yes… already looking forward to the next “unplugged.”

The Peter Rabbit Tea Party

Once again, the time came upon us to indulge the children with an afternoon garden party. My mother lives for this type of thing. If you have followed this blog for any length of time, you may remember the Peter Rabbit Tea Party she hosted a few years ago. Looking back at those pictures really got me reminiscing. I can’t believe how much has changed over the years! I’m so thankful my mom and dad take the time to make their grandchildren feel special. Actually, it makes us all feel special. I honestly feel like, for a moment, we are transported back in time to something very nostalgic and meaningful. Simultaneously, I am capturing the present moment; my pre-teen son not wanting to smile for the camera, and my baby’s bandage from a very fresh wound… Oh, it all goes by in a blink. I urge you: take the time to make special memories. Children really are our greatest investment! Okay, okay I’ll stop before I get emotional. On to the party!

Upon arrival, Peter Rabbit himself greeted us and led us toward the party…

Along with Jemima Puddle-Duck (and her basket of eggs; i.e., sidewalk chalk so the kids could jump right into play.)

As well as, other various characters from Beatrix Potter’s classic stories…

And just like that, the mood was set for surprise and delightful anticipation of what lies ahead. Naturally, one would want to dress for such an occasion. Therefore, the ladies and gents alike were given opportunity to adorn themselves before attending the luncheon.

The table was arranged with finger sandwiches and tea cups; which were in reality filled with chocolate milk and juice- since our kids don’t actually prefer tea. There were chocolates, and Peter Rabbit themed party “crackers” filled with prizes. (Hence the crowns…) And, if you know my middle son, you know why it makes complete sense that he was the first child sitting at the table.

Baskets were hung at every seat, which were to be used for an egg hunt. Each child had to find an individual egg brimming with candy and other hard-boiled eggs to be used later for an egg toss.

There was also a fresh fruit option, that I’m not sure any kid tried.

Lemon bunny cake for dessert. (How cute are the carrot forks!)

I think they enjoyed themselves.

It’s a party dah-ling, “too many accessories” does not apply.

Rascals? Nah.

The attention to detail was noticeable everywhere.

Inside, the adults didn’t fare too badly either.

Enough eating… Let the games begin! (And maybe a little butterfly catching if time permits.)

The hunt is on.

When all of the eggs had been found it was time for a little relaxation… and a photo op!

Then the egg toss. This is serious…

But not like “set down your lipgloss” or “use your dominant hand” serious.

However, there were prizes at stake. So the bigger kids had to take a few steps back.

Prize time! Everyone got a little something… But, can someone please tell me how she won?

Next, we were off to the races!

We’re ready.

Nope. Now we’re ready.

Wait a minute. Get back to start, you little cheater.

Ok. Now we’re really ready.

Some people just can’t handle the thought of losing.

And some people have to stop mid-race to get a drink… She wins again!

Next up…

On your mark, get set…

Go!

And the girls win it again!

That was hard work. I think we deserve some cake. Time to spread out our blankets and listen to tales of Peter Rabbit, Benjamin Bunny, and Mrs. Puddle-Duck. Not a bad way to end the day.

Actually, the day ended with more food, watching the Peter Rabbit movie and a sleepover.

Thanks for the memories Granny and Gramps. You’re the best.

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Where Does the Time Go?

I was sitting in the corner of the orthodontist’s office this morning while my oldest son received his braces. The orthodontic assistant was kindly making small talk, asking my son what he did over the weekend. “Nothing,” he said in that awkward moment of being polite while his mouth was full of metal dental tools, “just stayed home.”

“Just stayed home?” I thought to myself- trying to remember what we did. Honestly, it feels like we’ve been going non-stop. “What did we do this weekend?” I questioned myself. For a moment I was completely blank. Oh! We worked on the beach yesterday. I weeded for hours, trimmed trees along our path, and we finally burned that stump… I guess we did ‘stay home’ yesterday… but what did we do Saturday? Oh right! It was my daughter’s first ballet recital- I was scrambling all morning with preparation: tights and costume ready; hung upside down for more poof; hair sprayed stiff in a left part/low bun. I also had volunteered to be stage mom without a clue of what I was doing… Then we took her out for ice cream, before we went back to our house to meet up with more family to celebrate my father-in-laws 72nd birthday with pizza and cake. But I knew there was more we had done… Oh yeah, we had a mural (which we had acquired upon purchase of our home- although interesting, not my taste), sanded, skimmed and painted on Friday. I weeded the whole front yard while he was working, mopped the kitchen and living room floor, did several loads of laundry and washed dishes… After he left I picked up the kids from my sister’s house. They had stayed the night because the day before, my mother had thrown them a “Peter Rabbit” inspired garden party. It’s all coming back to me. That’s why I had so many dishes to wash, I had made food for the adults at the party, Magnolia Table’s Curry Chicken Salad and Lemon Bars, Pioneer Woman’s Pretty Fruit Salad and a lemon cake for the children in rabbit molded cake pan. That night my husband, friends, and I played in our co-ed volleyball league. I remember worrying about my son’s teeth because just the day before, Wednesday, he had his spacers put in to prepare for the braces; that was the same day of my daughter’s ballet rehearsal (where “stage moms” weren’t allowed in backstage). My husband had to meet us at the rehearsal to take the boys home because the traffic during his commute was awful. It was chaos- like the night before when we had invited my in-laws over for dinner. Dinner was easy- I highly recommend the slow cooker Korean Beef Tacos from Skinnytaste. I had marinated the ingredients Monday evening and thrown everything in the cooker in the morning, before I took the kids to Costco to load up on our paper goods supplies. But, I had double-booked myself that evening and felt terrible leaving my family, because I had arranged to show our rental house to some friends that are looking to buy a home… Monday I grocery shopped… Sunday was Father’s Day… Saturday was Incredibles II… Friday we kicked off the beginning of summer break with a pool party at my sister’s -and a trip to ER because my youngest son jumped into the pool and crashed heads with my oldest…

And then it occurred to me, in the chair in the corner of that orthodontist office, that this might be the first time I sat down in over a week… Time goes…

Photos of the Summer Kickoff:

And the trip to ER:

Magnolia Table’s Chicken Curry Salad (because I love taking pictures of food).

A glimpse of the yard I weed (my part time job) and you can just catch a view of the pond area at the bottom- it’s a weedy beast. And beach we work on regularly. (Two words: goose poop).

My ballerina after the Performance:

Peter Rabbit Party Pics to come! (When I have more time.) 😉

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Mississippi Wedding

The first time I met my husband’s family, well, it was a little bit like going to the circus- entertaining to say the least, and I never knew what to expect next. It was a family reunion at his aunt’s house in Northern Michigan. His deceased mother was the oldest of nine children- and he hadn’t seen most of his family, while he’d been away at college, since the funeral. Many of them, including his grandmother met us on the front lawn. There were tears… long hugs… and a lot of laughs… all within the first 5 minutes. Owen and I had recently gotten engaged, so to make us feel welcome fit right in stand out like a sore thumb, they had hats prepared for us to wear with “Groom-To-Be” and “Bride-To-Be”, respectively. As the night went on, there were more many more tears, hugs and laughs; enough food to feed an army; and never a dull moment on any square inch of any of that acreage. And that really is the family in a nutshell. They are passionate, hardworking, and FUN-loving people… and it took about 2 seconds to see where my husband got his personality.

One of the little family members I met that day was my husband’s cousin Chris, a sweet and lighthearted boy with a great head of curly hair and contagious laugh. Somehow he has managed to stay just the same… only a little older.

It’s hard to believe that Chris was about my oldest son’s age when he attended my wedding (insert sigh and moment to reminisce)… but, now he is all grown up. And as good fortune would have it, he has made his perfect match… Which brought us to the deep south for a Mississippi Wedding!

Then venue for the big day was at Plein Air Chapel and Mill in Taylor, Mississippi just outside of Oxford. It was picturesque; quaint, intimate, and rustically elegant.

(Naturally, never being in Mississippi before, I had a blast playing up the southern gentlemen and southern belle.)

I mean, really… there wasn’t one bad angle on the whole grounds.

Mother of the Groom, Aunt Barb- beautiful inside and out, waiting in the on-site restaurant for the ceremony to begin:

Father of the Groom, Uncle Al, doing the same… and partaking in a little A/C (since it was something like 92° in the shade):

Aunt Rochelle, looking lovely while braving the elements and not even breaking a sweat:

I wish I would have gotten more pictures outside of the chapel to show you. It really is idyllic. However, I did manage to snap a few inside during the ceremony…

Mother and Father of the Groom walking down the aisle to light the Unity Candle:

The Mother-of-the-Bride was stunning. And before I knew who she was, I saw her sitting on the front porch of the chapel looking all the part of a calm, cool and collected Southern Lady while the Father-of-the-Bride was waiting with his daughter. I really wish I had asked to take her picture (the grumblings of a non-related, not-hired-to-be-the-photograper, introvert). Anyway, this picture does not do her justice, but you get an idea:

The wedding party was gorgeous and the bouquets were so pretty! Here’s a glimpse:

And look at these sweet little showstoppers!:

And the moment we’ve all been waiting for…

Can’t you just see that sparkle in her eye? You should have seen how cute she was on the dance floor! (And can you say wedding veil? Love it. )

The ceremony was just precious, so heartfelt… (I’m such a sucker for vows of devotion.)

Caught the mom moment:

And the new Mr. & Mrs!

Time to go celebrate:

And what would a reception (or Sadie’s Nest) be without the food? Time for a little Southern Comfort… 😉 The menu included fun finger foods like BBQ Pulled Pork Sliders, White BBQ Chicken Sandwiches, Fried Green Tomato BLT’s (Yassss! If you didn’t know, now you know.), Shrimp, Stuffed Mushrooms, Grilled Asparagus, etc., Caesar Salad, and delicious dips, such as Cheesy Artichoke, Salsa, and Buffalo Chicken Dip with mounds of Tortilla and Pita Chips…

For the kids, young and old, who like to start with dessert first…

Who stole the cookie from the cookie jar? (I found him.)

Can you blame him?

Of course when it comes to dessert at a wedding, you have to have the main event… I love how simply beautiful this is:

The centerpieces were gorgeous too.

I think it’s safe to say, the relaxed atmosphere (in no small part due to Sydney and Chris) was enjoyed by all.

And the kids had a blast running around outside. Isn’t there just something so sweetly nostalgic about that?

Barefoot and all…

Although I have to say, hands down, my favorite thing about going to a wedding is the priceless moments spent with friends and family.

Welcome to the family Sydney!

A special thank you to Sarah Rousseau, who took this shot with my camera so I could be in it. 🙂

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Magnolia Table

What can I say, except that Joanna Gaines is perfect? I don’t know if you’ve read my “about” page, but she has pretty much checked off my dream list at the ripe ol’ age of 40. Farm, Bed & Breakfast (two of them), café, … check, check, check… Oh, plus a home goods store, furniture and home decor line, successful TV show, magazine, restaurant, garden, great hair, slim figure, fabulous kitchen floor tile… Not bad. And now, with baby no. five in tow, she has published her first cookbook: Magnolia Table, A Collection of Recipes for Gathering. I love it. I knew I would. Doggone it, if she just isn’t the most practical down-to-earth humble and fantastic home cook! Joanna Gaines understands that it’s not about perfection, it’s a more of “a celebration of bringing people together.” Getting into the kitchen, slowing down and making something to nourish her family is a way for her to unwind. I can relate to that.

There is no pretense in Magnolia Table. Joanna Gaines doesn’t claim to be a chef. She is just a mom… wife… daughter… with a love of tradition, meals with her family and making memories with loved ones at a table, counter top, or in the garden with good food. She states “…things within these pages might look like contradictions… I often buy organic meat… but I consider store-bought refrigerated dough and boxed broth to be gifts…” Ditto. Her cookbook gives easy to follow recipes for JoJo’s Biscuits and Perfect Roast Chicken, but she admits she is all for substituting with store-bought rotisserie chicken and ready-made canned biscuits. After all, every busy person knows that short cuts are an absolute when you’re trying to do it all! If time and planning permits, sure- make it from scratch. But when you want the home cooked results and just don’t have enough hours in the day… There is no shame in the pre-made game. Joanna isn’t too proud to admit things such as using frozen shredded potatoes in Jo’s Fatayar. And to be honest, that makes the recipe more approachable for me. To quote Nancy Fuller, “fresh is best, unless you’re stressed.” (And with four kids ages 12 and under, I’m like always stressed.)

Of course, her pictures are amazing. Not like over-stated, melted cheese nailed to a board and stretching pictures, but simple, rustic, and delicious looking images of food that you want to eat. Nothing seems short on flavor, including and ranging in influences from her Korean background (Mom’s Bulgogi) and her local Tex-Mex (Party Queso). And the book is sectioned into categories the way I cook- Breakfast, Soups & Salads (possibly my favorite chapter?), Appetizers & Starters, Side Dishes, Dinner, etc. She covers all of the basics; pie crust, mashed potatoes, chocolate chip cookies, chicken pot pie. But, includes her spin on family favorites like Gaines Brother Burgers with Drip Jam, King Ranch Chicken with Mexican-Style Jicama Salad, and Beef Tenderloin with Pickled Jalapeño Sour Cream. Joanna shares the same notion of never wanting the dome-lidded cake plate on my kitchen island to be empty. So, she offers plenty of recipes for easily grab-able goodies like Orange Scones, Cinnamon Swirl and Walnut Quick Bread, and Lemon & Lavender Ice Box Cookies. And then she totally melts your heart with a copy of a hand-typed Syrian Donut recipe she made with her grandfather as a child. She has a grip on practical family foods like casseroles and crock pot recipes… Hello? Eggs Benedict Casserole! (A recipe I nabbed from the winter edition of her magazine too, because Eggs Benedict for the whole family at one time is genius.) And she completely surprised me with some new recipes I’ve never tried… Baked Chicken with Bacon Bottom & Wild Rice. Am I the only one who has never lined the bottom of a 13×9 baking dish with a layer of bacon and rice? Side note: It is also very likely that I will once again buy Velveeta. Because, let’s just admit the truth: it’s a delicious food product… and so creamy! And since Ree Drummond and Joanna Gaines have found place for it, who am I to hold back?

Needless to say, I’m a fan. (And I’m going to start twirling my baked Chicken Spaghetti into little nests, because it is adorable.)

 

The Fabulous Life of a Mommy Blogger

It’s another lavishing day of the kids waking up to the waft of a fresh batch of scones, lemon curd and freshly squeezed orange juice while I relaxingly pick away on my laptop in my stylish home office, surrounded by mementos of my world travels and full of inspiration. I am halfway into my second cup of un-interrupted coffee poured from my press. I’ve got my French café music subtly drifting in the background, and my hair has once again has fallen perfectly into place. I’m pretty sure that in spite of my love of baking, the scale says I have dropped another 5 pounds. Bliss.

Errrr, no.

It’s the second morning in a row that my middle son has woken me up in the wee hours of the morning for various reasons… fever… bad dreams, etc. There is no room for him, since his baby brother is already in my bed, so to get him back in his bed I am demoted to the empty bunk. I’m exhausted. I am purposefully ignoring the alarm clock, because I don’t want to face the fact that in less than an hour I need to wake my oldest son and start the morning scramble to get everyone off to school on time. Everyone that is- except my daughter who has apparently caught the bug that her brother had just the night before. Note to self: make sure to call the school for an excused absence. Even with my best planning, it always seems like a lot of uninvited chaos in the morning. Did I mention it’s still snowing- in April? And so, I refuse to start the rat race until absolutely necessary.

I throw my hair up in my signature folded pony tail/half-bun thing. (Is that an appropriate hairstyle for someone in their 40’s?) I refuse to step on any scale- I know the truth. After the mad rush, which results in a meal of cereal and milk (nothing out of the oven), I grab a high protein granola bar for myself and take my first drink of coffee. I decide to put off the day’s round of dishes and laundry, and really attempt to jot a few things down for my blog at the highly kid-accessible kitchen table full of remnants of breakfast and action figures. It’s right about the time when I get cooking- figuratively, when the patient needs water… the potty trainer needs assistance in the bathroom… both kids need a snack… you know the drill.

And it is after all of this time, when I feel comfortable sitting at the computer again knowing that my daughter has had a bite to eat and medicine for her small grade fever; and that her baby brother should be both satisfied with his hunger and “emptied out” for the time being when he brings me a piece of poop that he has reserved for his big boy underpants after just going to the bathroom 10 minutes prior. Because I am who I am, I freak out holding his hand high into the air in my most sanitary march into the bathroom. The “piece” is disposed of and his hands scrubbed. His pants are placed in the dirty clothes basket and underwear thrown away. (I am not going to try and spot clean this.) We have the discussion about placing all the poo into the potty and I sit down thrice more. It takes only a few seconds this time for him to retrieve a second piece of poop to which now I realize was not from a butt scratching, but a separate pile that was actually mounded onto the floor. To make matters more complicated, it is also clear that he has stepped in the pile and traipsed it through… that’s a good question. This in turn results in another hand scrubbing, a foot scrubbing, a second lesson about not touching poop, and a new teaching on telling mommy where the poop is. I then mop the floor from the toy room, through the living room and all the way through the bathroom- including a little spot cleaning the living room rug. Did I get it all? I really don’t know. I’ll probably come unglued the next few times one of my kids tries to eat a fallen snack from off of the floor. (I’m a work in progress). However, I did gain writing material… Fabulous. I’ll take it.

A Father’s Dance

He is there almost every week. He is there to watch her through the window. And we all stand outside, him, the mother, the new girlfriend and me. We are there in the crowded hallway peering through the glass with the other mothers and occasional grandmother. And I know he works hard, I can tell by the dirt on his work clothes and boots- and the expression on his simultaneously youthful and worn face. By the logo on his regularly adorned hooded sweatshirt, I know he must be in the excavating business. This week the mother wasn’t there. The dad and girlfriend brought the little girl to class. They had arrived early and so had we. I heard the girlfriend ask the little girl about the sick mother while the dad spent at least five minutes in the bathroom washing the day’s work off of his hands. After he came out, he showed his hands to the girlfriend with an expression of satisfaction, and asked if they looked better. Meanwhile, the little girl sat on the floor clumsily removing her clunky snow boots to put on her delicate ballet shoes. And he warned her while she wrestled with her big boots, not to let her leg touch his pants; that they would definitely get dirty. But she did knick the knee of her pale pink tights on on the dusty shin of his work pants. As foretold, it left a mark which the girlfriend quickly and attentively tried to pat away. “Those are going to have to take a bath,” he said making light of the situation. And his daughter reassured him that she has two more pair at home. Often his speech is course in the hallway, not vulgar- but as to reflect a life hard earned. Yet, he is gentle with her. It is clear she is his treasure. When our daughters enter the classroom, he doesn’t leave the window. The conversation behind the glass with the girlfriend is peppered with the facts of daily life; like, he is going to have to drive to Flat Rock next week. And I don’t say anything- that I know that area well because I grew up near there and have a lot of family downriver Detroit. But I understand that it means he is going to have to drive over an hour each way to work. I can hear the disappointment in the girlfriend’s short response, to which he matter of factly replies that “It’s work,” and he encourages her that the ground is thawing. “They are saying it could be thawed by April 15th.” And I know he needs the work by the way he talks. I have no idea of his hardships or even lack thereof. I assume, on top of the cost of living, he must help pay for ballet lessons and probably child support. She understands and says that she only has two days of work this week, but next week was going to have overtime. Yet, he never loses focus on the reason he is here, and remarks that his daughter is improving. He notices that she is more coordinated and shares that information with the girlfriend in a coinciding understated and proud way. And they discuss where they will eat afterwards, because neither them has eaten dinner yet- clearly this is their priority. He excuses himself briefly to the vending machine and they share a couple Starbursts to tide them over. The girlfriend states that she wants the pink one. But he tells her “No, it’s her favorite,” and pockets it until the little girl comes out of class. While she sits on the floor replacing her dance shoes again with the oversized boots, he asks her if she would like the candy. She raises her arms toward him with excitement at the little surprise. “What do you say?”, he naturally prompts her.
“Please!” she says loudly. The father gives it to her, his love and the candy. It’s beautiful to watch as he smiles at her assuringly. And I believe it is all going to be okay, as he confidently takes the lead.

Kawasaki’s Disease

I had already rescheduled the dentist appointments for my two oldest children, I didn’t want to miss them again. My parents had offered to come and sit with my other two kids for the afternoon, so keeping the appointments wouldn’t be a problem. All was going according to plan- except that the baby had been running a fever for the last 48 hours. This being my fourth child, I’m accustomed to the occasional viruses. Still, the fever was persistent- reaching over 104° and even remaining at around 102° after a dose of Tylenol. The day before, I had started alternating with Motrin and Tylenol to try and keep it under control. My concern started to grow when I realized that after taking the Motrin, Noah was consistently breaking out into hives. If you have followed my blog for any length of time, you know that allergic reactions are very common with him  (Allergy Induced Eczema). But this was new, he had taken Motrin before without a problem. What a terrible time to develop a new allergy! However, understanding that even the color of the dye could have triggered a reaction, I had asked my husband to bring home something other than the orange colored Motrin we were using on his way home from work. But the new purple color didn’t seem to be any better as I noticed new hives on his cheek and legs within 10 minutes of the dose… yet, in spite of the hives, the Motrin seemed to be the only thing that was keeping his fever down. And now, on top of everything else, it appeared that he was getting pinkeye… and one side of the back of his neck was really swollen. So, while I stayed home that night with the other children, my husband took Noah on an evening trip to the local urgent care.

While at urgent care, Noah tested negative for strep throat, but due to the nagging fever and swollen lymph node on his neck, the doctor treated him for it anyway- assuming it would show up positive in the lab where they would be sending it out. He prescribed him an antibiotic and sent him home. Having an answer and medication obviously gave me peace of mind and I thought surely by the time the dentist appointments came rolling around the next afternoon, he would be feeling better. But when my parents arrived he wasn’t improving. He was lethargic and miserable. His eyes were extremely red, his swollen lymph node was getting bigger. He had thrown up his antibiotic and later his Tylenol. I called his pediatrician to let them know what was going on and to ask if I could try aspirin for the fever, since he was clearly having allergic reactions to the Motrin. The office nurse advised me not to, for fear of Reyes disease, but suggested the standard lukewarm bath… and to take him to the hospital if the fever got any higher. After a short discussion with my parents, we decided that it would be more comfortable for everyone if they took the two kids to their appointments, and I stayed home with the baby and my other son. I could tell he was getting sleepy, and I thought after they left and things calmed down, I’d try another attempt at a dose of Tylenol.

As soon as they walked out the door, I decided to take his temperature. I didn’t want to disturb his rest, but he hadn’t fallen asleep yet and I thought I had better try now, so I wouldn’t have to wake him later. I readied a dose of Tylenol and swiped his forehead. The thermometer read105.5! None of my kids had ever registered a fever that high. I panicked. I ran him upstairs and into a lukewarm bath. I told my 4 year old to keep talking to him while I began to pack a bag. He was so sluggish, I was afraid that he might even lose consciousness. Why was he allergic to Motrin now? I always pray, but I started pleading out loud to God. Why? Why hadn’t God just taken away his fever? I had prayed He would. I knew He could. I couldn’t even think of what to pack… a change of clothes… a couple diapers… that ready dose of Tylenol… I grabbed some loose clothing to dress the baby and headed downstairs. I was fearful and teary when I put the boys in the car. “Just keep talking to your brother” I told my son as I tried to concentrate on driving to the hospital. I called my parents to tell them to come back. “Meet me at the hospital” I told them.

(Side note: My 4 year old was incredible; soothing and calm. He kept his brother’s attention while being keenly aware of my fear and desperation. I couldn’t be more proud.)

Now, not to name names, I hate that local hospital. But they were the closest, and I gave them the benefit of the doubt that they could handle a fever and assumed they would obviously have more options of treatment than my failed Tylenol and Motrin. While waiting in triage, I had stripped his clothing and placed damp cloths on his head arms and legs. They took his temperature and it read around 101°. I asked the nurse if that was possible, for the temperature to have dropped that much after a lukewarm bath? She said it was, but decided to take a rectal reading for more accuracy. It was still over 103°, and his whole face was starting to swell, but still I was feeling optimistic: his temperature was down and we were in a place with professionals that could help. Shortly thereafter, my mother came in and took my other son out to the car with my dad and two other children. He would take them back to my house while she stayed with me. I called my husband to let him know what was happening, and he told me he was leaving work and on his way. But soon my optimism began turning to frustration. Call it “mother’s intuition”, or even common sense, but we were left the next 25+ minutes without anyone checking on my son or administering any attempt at a fever reducer. I could tell by the way he was acting that his it was starting to spike. When my husband arrived, I asked him to get the Tylenol from my car. Thank God I had thought to grab it! I had nothing to lose by trying, and in a triumphant effort, he was able to keep the medicine in his system without throwing up. It had now been about about a total of over 45 minutes since we had seen a nurse or anyone. After about 15 more minutes (of now pure neglect) I felt confident that he had enough medicine in his system to get him to Children’s Hospital, about a 30 minute drive further.

When we arrived to Children’s Hospital I was relieved. I knew we would get help. His fever was now hovering at around 102° (and his face was swollen to almost unrecognizable) while we explained to triage, nurses and eventually doctors what had been happening. I told them everything: the fever, the pinkeye, the swollen lymph node, the trip to urgent care, treatment for step, the antibiotic, the hives and seemingly new allergy to Motrin. The ER doctor explained how they would be doing an X-ray and an MRI, looking at the possibility of an infected lymph node or cyst. They started an intravenous antibiotic since he couldn’t keep medicine down. They tested his mucous for different strains of flu. As results started coming in and ruling things out the doctor would give us updates. It wasn’t an infected lymph node… his SED rate and white blood cell count were high… it could be an infection elsewhere… it wasn’t flu… we need to check his urine for bacteria… I loved the attention to detail, attention to my sick baby. (Thank you nurse Melissa.) With Noah in good hands, I was mostly worried about how I was I going to be able to treat future fevers… I mean I don’t have anything else in my fever-fighting arsenal except Tylenol and Motrin!

As the results kept coming in, the ER doctor would give us updates. She explained the MRI, the X-ray, some of the labs… and that some of the labs wouldn’t be in until tomorrow. Because they had tested for some things that came back questionable, they wanted to do further testing, just to be sure they didn’t miss anything. “Sure,” I thought, “Absolutely.” And then she mentioned that although rare, she just couldn’t rule out the possibility of Kawasaki’s Disease. “Uh-huh, ok,” I nodded. I really thought it was just protocol, the physician being thorough. I was convinced it was a just a virus, a double whammy with a case of pinkeye and an unsettling new allergy. She could have said “It’s possible your son is part alien,” and I would have given it as much attention. Understanding that I had no clue as to what Kawasaki’s Disease was, she jokingly suggested that I don’t google it. She went on to explain that the fever was definitely a symptom. (But fevers often are symptom to everything right?) She mentioned that the unilateral swollen lymph node (a less common characteristic of the disease) was significant in that usually with bacterial infections, such as strep, there is bilateral lymph node swelling (both sides). The pinkeye was definitely a trait of the disease. (But of course with 4 kids, I had seen pinkeye before.) She was very clear that it was too early to determine, but went on (for our knowledge) to describe it as an autoimmune disease where the body attacks the medium-sized tissue. The membranes, the soft tissue in the nose and eyes, are affected but most dangerously it affects the arteries to the heart. Therein lied the reason why she clarified that it was important to determine. If left untreated, the repercussions could be fatal down the road. Now she had my complete attention. The infected person could have coronary heart disease and ultimately a heart attack in their early 20’s. She compared it to your antibodies being Pac-man, chomping up the bad cells; but then it’s like they get so proud of themselves doing such a good job getting rid of all of the bad, that they start to attack everything in their sight and consequently attack the good. She reiterated that it is rare, but she couldn’t rule it out- not yet. He had some classic symptoms, like those red hands. She asked when we noticed the red hands. Red hands? I hadn’t noticed. Oh my goodness. Sure enough, it looked like someone had dipped his hand in red Kool-Aid. What? When did that happen?

According to www.heart.org:

Kawasaki’s Disease: Named after Dr. Tomisaku Kawasaki, a Japanese pediatrician, the disease has probably been in existence for a long time, but was not recognized as a separate entity until 1967. The incidence is higher in Japan than in any other country. In the United States it is more frequent among children of Asian-American background, but can occur in any racial or ethnic group.

The disease has been reported worldwide and in the United States it is the most common cause of acquired heart disease in children. In recent years, it has tended to occur in localized outbreaks, most often in the winter or early spring, but is seen year-round. Kawasaki disease almost always affects children; most patients are under 5 years old, and the average age is about 2. Boys develop the illness almost twice as often as girls.

The heart may be affected in as many as one of four children who develop Kawasaki disease. Damage sometimes occurs to the blood vessels that supply the heart muscle (the coronary arteries) and to the heart muscle itself. A weakening of a coronary artery can result in an enlargement or swelling of the blood vessel wall (an aneurysm). Infants less than 1 year old are usually the most seriously ill and are at greatest risk for heart involvement. The acute phase of Kawasaki disease commonly lasts 10 to 14 days or more. Most children recover fully.

Cause

The cause of Kawasaki disease is unknown. It does not appear to be hereditary or contagious. Because the illness frequently occurs in outbreaks, an infectious agent (such as a virus) is the likely cause. Sometimes more than one child in a family can develop Kawasaki disease, which may indicate a genetic predisposition for the disease.

We learned it’s a clinical diagnosis. There is no test that can positively identify you have Kawasaki’s Disease. And they still don’t know what causes the disease. The best guess is that there are environmental triggers, and only those who have the sensitivity to those triggers will react. They know it is more common in boys, even more so to Japanese boys, and specifically ages 2-5. The symptoms include a high and persistent fever usually lasting 10 days, red eyes, irritability and discomfort, occasionally the single swollen lymph node, the high white blood cell count… If they can mark about 5 things off of the checklist, especially in the absence of other possible solutions, then the diagnosis is made. After the diagnosis is made, quick treatment is preferred; the sooner treated, the less chance of unfavorable outcome.

By the next morning, Noah was diagnosed with Kawasaki’s Disease. There is no conclusive test or cause, but thankfully there is a cure. They discontinued the administration of antibiotics (they are not effective on the disease.) He was given an EKG and echocardiogram to determine any current damage and for future comparison. He started IV IG, Immunoglobulin therapy, within hours of the diagnosis. It was going to be a long process- on a normal administration it could take approximately 17 to 21 hours depending on how quickly they could ramp up the dosage. However, he had an allergic reaction to the initial treatment. After uncontrollable body shaking they had to stop. The next morning, with a few hours of rest, it was pertinent to try again. Through persistent 104° fevers, body aches, the newly-developed skin peeling (another signature Kawasaki’s Disease trait), and all-around misery he completed the full round of IV IG treatment. We were told there was about a 95% success rate after completion. To be given an approval for success he needed to be fever-free a certain amount of (maybe 6) hours. He wasn’t. And so, we started the process again- this time with a 99% rate of success. If he persisted to have a fever… the doctor gave us a couple options of how we could proceed. But I am thankful to say we never needed those options. The second treatment was effective. We gave him excessive but necessary amounts of prescribed aspirin (forget about Reyes Disease). We followed up with his cardiologist and he has been given a clean bill of heart health. As a precaution, before he starts sports, we will follow up again with a cardiologist when he reaches the age of ten.

Why does anyone have to suffer anything? I don’t know. But during all of the hours (and my 40th birthday) spent at the hospital, I had a lot of time to think about all that had transpired. By the second evening I had concluded it was nothing short of a miracle that he had developed an “allergic reaction” to the Motrin. I thought about myself in the beginning of the whole ordeal- in desperation crying out to God, about why now with this high fever Noah had developed a new allergy to the only thing that helped his fever. And how now with a clearer understanding, I was thanking God for the reaction! …One of those Unanswered Prayers song type of things. If I had kept his fever down with Motrin, I’m sure I would have spent days trying to treat strep throat with an antibiotic. It’s likely I would have thought he also was also fighting a virus… that would have explained the rash. I’m sure I wouldn’t have thought twice about the pinkeye- not initially, when time is of the essence. Kawasaki’s Disease wouldn’t have crossed my mind. Usually, the diagnosis of the disease is made around day 5 of the fever. We started treatment at about 3½- because of an “allergic reaction to Motrin.” God was with me through it all. I was (and am) in awe of His faithfulness.

Coincidentally, (because we hadn’t had enough fun) within a week my daughter began to have high fevers, a slight rash and red eyes. Of course we took her directly to Children’s Hospital. Obviously, I was heightened to the possibility of Kawasaki’s Disease. We were assured when we brought Noah home that the disease was not contagious, however, the possibility of them both being exposed to the same environmental triggers was not out of the question. Turns out she had the Adenovirus… and pinkeye. Who’d da thunk?

I should mention that these events took place last year. Oh and interestingly enough, Noah is not allergic to Motrin.

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Irish Poem and Blessing

I thought it was befitting to share a couple of Ireland’s treasures, William Butler Yeats and a traditional blessing; mostly, as they pertain to encouraging the love of life and others. So today (and every day) may you be able to set your differences aside and take joy in appreciation of one another! (I’m a little Irish, so I can say that.) ? ?

Happy St. Paddy’s Day!

 

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